Something happened the other night that I want to tell you about.
It was a "date night" with my 2-and-half-year-old, Eva. Just me and the kid.
Normally she picks where we go, but for something different, I decided and took her to Menchies and let her go nuts.
Menchies is a frozen yogurt place where you pick your toppings and weigh your bowl and pay whatever. I've never been, so I thought it'd be fun for her.
But here's what I didn't realize...
It was "2 for 1" night, so the place was packed with people grabbing 2 for 1 yogurts.
So Eva and I got in line, grabbed the bowl, and got our treats. She went with chocolate yogurt, gummy bears, M & M's, and Reese's Pieces on top.
Strange combo, I know, but it's her world, I'm just living in it.
When I got to the counter, the customer paying at the register next to me saw I just had one bowl and said,
"You know it's 2 for 1, right??"
I didn't know, so I thought for a second, "Do I care?"
And politely replied,
"Oh that's OK, we just want the 1."
What's my point here?
Keep your eyes on the prize. Keep yourself focused on the reason you're doing what you're doing.
The point of the daddy-daughter date was to spend time with my girl and give her a treat.
It wasn't to give myself a treat, and before I walked into the store I wasn't thinking about getting anything for myself, anyways.
Which is why I was totally OK with turning down the treat for myself.
It wasn't needed. That wasn't my focus.
I'm not sharing because I think I'm better or stronger or healthier or whatever because I resisted the second (free) yogurt.
I'm just sharing because it was a moment where it would've been easy to just take the free gift and eat something that I never even had a desire to have in the first place.
And it probably would've made me feel like crap after anyways.
So that's it. That's my long, rambling story.
I don't know, maybe it's stupid.
But it was a moment where I wondered how many people would take that second, free yogurt just because it was offered, not because they really wanted it.
This weekend, just stop and take a second before you make decisions.
Do you really wanna do what you're about to do?
Skip the workout. Eat that junk. Stay up that extra hour.
Will it move you 1 step closer to, or 1 step further from, your desired result?
Are you FOCUSING?
Enjoy life, take some time to have fun, but keep yourself focused on what really matters to you.
Why is it that North Americans are growing in physical size at a rapid rate - despite the fact that we have such advanced technology and access to fresh, organic, nutritious food?
Or that we can get books, pills, and powders in 24 hours and start that new diet tomorrow.
Plus there's TV docs preaching the benefits of this exercise and that super food.
So what gives?
Why are we getting BIGGER despite all this info?
Well, part of it is because we are willing to sacrifice quality and health over taste and convenience. In North America, we always want things bigger, better, and faster. Especially our meals - we want access (NOW!) to fast, tasty foods.
And unfortunately for your waistline, this shows up.
Another reason is that we just don't move as much as we should.
Bed > Car > Desk > Lunchroom > Desk > Car > Table > Couch
Today, I want to help you analyze the typical North American style of eating, and give you solid strategies to build healthier, more body composition-friendly meals.
First, take a couple minutes and think of some of the meals you've eaten in recent hours. What are some of the common trends?
For breakfast, what's that typically look like?
How about lunch?
And dinner, what does that look like, most often?
How much time and consideration did you set aside for your choices, and preparation of those meals?
Let's take a look at a typical day of eating for most North Americans:
Breakfast (if you even eat it) - cereal, bagel/toast, orange juice
Lunch - sandwich, juice or soda, chips/cookie
Dinner - some kind of meat with a small serving of vegetable and potato or pasta
Snacks? Those are probably mostly made up of crackers, fruit, granola bars, cookies, and candy.
So, how much nutrition do you ACTUALLY get from these meals? What is good, and what can be improved upon?
Here's what's missing...
Does that sound like a day in the life of you?
It's OK. It's common. That's why I'm here. To help shed some light and offer you some easy, concrete solutions to turn your typical, nutrient-poor meals into nutrition powerhouses.
Let's take a look-see at what you can change.
Step 1: Find your protein
Make this your number one priority for each meal. Why? For starters, it can help you feel fuller with less food (which is ideal for weight loss); But it can also improve your metabolism, energy levels, and body composition.
Protein is a foundation for sooo many metabolic processes in the body, it's crucial for optimal health and looking better in your clothes.
How much should you eat? Guys should aim for 40-50 grams of protein per meal, spread out over 3-5 meals per day.
Ladies can take in 20-30 grams at each meal, spread out over the same amount (3-5).
Step 2: Eat your damn veggies
Believe it or not, I hate veggies. I know, I am personal trainer and coach people to exercise and eat right. But it's true - I can't stand most vegetables.
But I eat 'em anyways. 'Cause they're good for me. So suck it up.
1-2 handfuls of fresh greens at each meal, say about half of your plate, is perfect.
Eating your veggies is going to help you get your intake of micro-nutrients (think vitamins and minerals), improve the acid/alkaline balance in your body, and keep you satisfied throughout the day - which will help auto-regulate your overall food intake.
So, first go for protein, then look for veggies.
Step 3: Save the starch (for after workouts!)
Ask yourself this question: Did I just finish a workout within the last hour?
No? Then I'd ditch the starchy carbs like potatoes, pasta, rice, or breads if you haven't just finished a workout recently.
The high-starch foods are best eaten within a couple hours after exercise, because it's the easiest way for your body to utilize those carbs, when your muscles are more readily wanting the glucose coming from those foods.
Just to clarify, I am not saying these foods are bad for you, and need to be avoided. It's important to understand that for better body composition, the timing of these foods plays a big part in your results.
When it is time to eat these delicious choices (like rice, quinoa, potato, or whole grains), aim to take in about a cupped handful. That will provide a nice glucose punch without over-doing it.
Step 4: You gotta get your fats
Of course, get your dose of fats. You probably know (or you need to know) that fats are key to a healthy hormonal profile, better functioning metabolism, and reduced inflammation - so be sure to keep a good intake of fats with your meals.
Fats are a bit tricky, as they can be easily over-consumed and stall your progress. When measuring out what you should have, aim to get a thumb-sized serving (or about a tablespoon) of nuts, seeds, or oil with each meal.
OK, now you know what constitutes a solid, nutrient-dense meal.
I'll leave you with the fifth and final step, which is a HUGELY important strategy that will keep your overall calories in check, and ultimately lead you to a slimmer waist.
Step 5: Master the Slow 80 Rule
The Slow 80 rule is simple: Eat slowly, and stop when you're about 80% full.
What does that look and feel like?
Stretch out the time it takes you to eat your meals. Chew your food a minimum of 67 times (kidding) and put your fork/spoon down in between each bite.
Engage in conversation, read a page from the paper or book, take a glance at today's to-do list.
Whatever you want, just take your time when you're eating.
Doing so will allow you to recognize when you've had enough. It will give your brain a chance to tell you that you're satisfied, and can put your fork down.
Now, the 80% part.
This just means don't keep eating until you're stuffed. Don't stop when you're still hungry, either.
Find the spot where you've been eating for a few extra minutes, and you no longer feel hungry. You could easily set your plate down and walk away, and be satisfied for the next few hours without being hungry.
This could save you literally HUNDREDS of calories a week, and WITHOUT feeling deprived. Uh, that's kinda important.
And, stopping just before you're full means you don't have to feel bloated, uncomfortable, and wishing you wore your stretchy pants to dinner.
I hope that gives you some practical strategies to start eating healthier meals, immediately.
And, to be certain that you're eating enough, use these graphics below to see what I'm talking about with portion sizes for protein, carbs, fats, and veggies.
Take it from me, back is not fun.
Being 31 years old, with a background in highly physical sports (football and pro wrestling), my back has a lot more "mileage" on it than most 31 year-olds.
If you suffer from back pain, I certainly know how you feel.
Today, I'll share with you a great stretch that can alleviate tension from your hips and take away some of your pain.
But you gotta do it RIGHT.
Check out this short video to see how to PROPERLY stretch out those tight hips, specifically your hip flexors, and trust me - your back will THANK YOU.
I've been waiting a long time to show you this.
Unfortunately, I don't have a TON of spare time where it's quiet enough to film something for you, so it took a bit longer than I wanted.
But anyways, I'm sharing it NOW.
So you can FORGET THE OLD WAY of stretching your hips and legs.
You know, like this:
If you still stretch like that, don't feel bad. Maybe you just didn't know there's a BETTER way to get flexible, other than just tossing your leg up on some high surface and reaching hopelessly for your toes.
Today, I'm hoping to broaden your horizons and get you up to speed on a more effective method for stretching and mobilizing those stiff hips.
Before we start, if you missed the previous article on how to PROPERLY STRETCH YOUR HIP FLEXORS, you should check that out.
Getting your hip flexors, glutes, and thighs loose and mobile will go a long way to keeping your lower back healthy and injury-risk down.
Right now, I want to show you how to STRETCH YOUR HIPS IN 3-D.
That's right. 3-DIMENSIONS.
Don't worry, no special plastic glasses are needed here. (Although feel free to wear them anyways if that floats your boat. I don't judge.)
Don't worry about trying to get into new, crazy ranges of movement just yet. If you're super stiff, just try to get as far as you can, to a somewhat uncomfortable end-range, and take some breaths.
If you're holding your breath, and just trying to SURVIVE the stretch, you've gone a bit too far, so back off a bit and rather EXPERIENCE the stretch.
You'll find after a few practices of this, you're getting into new ranges and positions that you might not have been able to before.
Enjoy your crazier dance moves and the extra spring in your step!